Olha Ustymenko: "Believe in yourself, dream and act!"

Finding your own vocation is rarely a straight path. It often begins with inner questions, life trials, new knowledge and those moments that gradually change a person's view of himself and his own life.

The heroine of the new interview of the BOMOND VIP fashion magazine is masseur, kinesiologist and energy practitioner Olha Ustymenko. We talk about modern women, the search for inner balance and the meaning of love as a force capable of changing a person from within. We also touch on the topic of chronic stress, emotional exhaustion and a person's desire to find his own foothold. About acceptance, self-confidence, inner energy and courage to choose your own path.

After all, very often the most important changes begin precisely from the moment when a person allows himself to hear his own desires and take a step towards himself.

Believe in yourself, dream and act. Don't choose someone else's desire - choose your own," Olha is convinced.

Mrs. Olha, I am close to your opinion that each of us is the main character of our own life and should not prove anything to anyone. Tell us, please, what was the beginning of your personal story before the role of a masseur, kinesiologist and energy practitioner?

The soul remembers everything.

It is not by chance that I always get my hands on interesting books to remember what experience my soul has chosen to implement. It was the same with the massage. The book came to me back in 2020, when I was on maternity leave with my second child and was looking for myself. Reading it, I realized that I get high not from the reading itself, but from the realization of how pleasant it is to feel the muscles with my hands. It was described in the book, but it was as if I felt everything with my own hands - every movement, every technique.

While still studying as a student in 2008, the girls and I lived in a dormitory and often massaged each other - just like that, without special knowledge, for pleasure and relaxation. Back then, as first-year students, we were just having fun, but there was feedback from the girls, which I'm good at. Whether it was for me to massage everyone more, or it really was. Now I have clients, which means I'm doing everything right.

It was different with energy practices.

The loss of a brother. I don't know how to live. Why him and not me? Why do I have the right to live and he doesn't? Why is life unfair?

Then I got my hands on a few more books. Of course, not by chance either. They became my healing and the impetus to find something deeper.

The desire to live even more did not leave me. Involuntarily, when asked how long I would like to live, I answered: 113 years.

I always knew my hands could do more. And I want to help people more - those who will turn to me for help.

I am an easy person who always boldly makes new decisions, takes risks and enjoys life, because I appreciate it more than ever. I can just enjoy life every day for no good reason. Because life is a thrill.

Kinesiology responded to me back in 2024, but I didn't go to study until 2025. As they say: everything has its time.

And I thank my teacher Andriy Samusenko for his faith in me and his knowledge. The teacher knows how to light a calm fire - patiently, with love. After the course, I also found peace, balance and harmony.

I understand how it is, because I still sewed that. That light remained in me, and the awl is no longer so active, because balance plays an important role.

I know that customers come to me for my energy. I'm so happy when they recharge from me. They seem to wake up after the session, and we always rejoice together.

How do you feel about the image of a modern woman? If you imagine that you are an artist and have to depict her on the canvas, what colors, states and emotions would be inherent in this image?

As for the woman of our time, I am still that artist. I don't know how to combine colors. (Mrs. Olha says with a smile on her face)

I know one thing for sure: it's a mystery woman.

I'll explain. Only a modern woman who knows exactly what she wants can be wise, loving, gentle and at the same time remain in balance.

Why this particular combination?

Only unconditional love makes a woman wise and tender. The world will save love.

You talk about the body as a holistic system, where every pain has its cause. How often is a person's psycho-emotional state reflected in physical symptoms? And how can you influence the internal state through working with the body?

Kinesiology is working with the body, psyche and brain.

Emotions clamp the muscles, keep the body in tension. When we work, the brain seems to tell the psyche: "Yes, you can." New states are laid at the level of the body, consciousness and subconscious.

With the help of kinesiology, we find programs that have formed in the past and modify them. After that, the so-called "crisis of healing" often occurs - the process of restructuring the psyche and internal reactions of a person.

Kinesiology for many remains a little understood direction. You note that sometimes it is not about "back massage" at all, but about complex work with breathing, emotions, different areas of the body. Please introduce us to this method: what is its essence and why after sessions people often feel relief not only in the body, but also in life?

In kinesiology, breathing is important so that a person is included in the process, and not just lying and doing nothing.

When we talk about removing muscle hypertonic, breathing is especially important. It is then that the process of restructuring and change is felt.

With the help of a muscle test, we show the psyche: "Look, there is a problem." And after removing hypertension again through a muscle test, we show: "Look, there is no problem anymore."

Relief in the life of every person is possible only when he wants it and allows himself it.

There are things that need to be learned to accept as they are. That's when healing happens.

There was one client who in an instant devalued everything we did at the session. I tell her, "You just put a new program in your mind." We protested - and indeed, this program was already present in the mind.

I offered to work it out again. But if a person goes out the door and continues to act in the same way, nothing will change in his life.

Chronic stress and burnout have become almost the norm of our time. How in your practice, through a combination of neuromuscular work, kinesiology and energy approaches, is the restoration of human resource? What do you most often see in the body of people who live in tension for a long time?

Chronic stress and burnout often indicate loss of self-confidence and lack of inner support.

It can happen to anyone, even to me, because there are always unpredictable situations in life. But I try to accept everything as it is, while many people immediately seek salvation in medicine.

In my opinion, the best medicine is acceptance. Acceptance of what is happening here and now.

Rejection of the situation, husband, mother, father or other important people in your life can lead to serious internal conflicts and even diseases.

In this state, a person cannot be in balance, because there is constant tension inside.

Emotional exhaustion is often described as a state where there is “no strength for anything”, even if the person is physically healthy. How do you, as an energy practitioner, explain the nature of this condition? Where does the energy disappear and how to restore it?

Emotional burnout is a signal of an imbalance of chakras. This is my favorite topic. I have already learned to distinguish what, where, how and why is happening. And the most interesting thing is that I can balance the chakra online.

Imagine harmonizing the chakras online when a person allows it. After that, the energy appears. When energy is in the negative, it is an impetus to pay attention to yourself. When it is too much - this is also a signal not to spray. Everything should be in balance.

What is energy kinesiology and how does this method help a person restore internal balance when they are experiencing emotional or energy exhaustion?

Everything is energy, and no matter how much we want it, it rises and falls. To bring yourself into balance, you need to harmonize your chakra system.

Energy kinesiology allows you to do this online. As a conductor, I can clearly determine which chakra is in an imbalance, and with the help of correction add energy there, that is, bring it into balance.

It is known that in the practice of energy kinesiology, great attention is paid to work with human energy centers. How is the work with chakras in this method and what impact does it have on the physical and emotional state of a person?

During the session, the client voices the request, and here the most interesting begins.

There are four areas of damage in the body: electrical, emotional, genetic and structural.

When I start working with the request, and the body does not give an answer after the first correction, then the question arises about energy viruses, which are the impact on our chakras. Through special mudras, we find which chakra is in an imbalance, and work with it.

Today, many transformational practices are moving to the online format. Is it possible to fully work with energy kinesiology remotely, and how exactly does the process of restoring human balance take place during online sessions?

Even if the client's request is a knee pain, you can work online to remove the programs. Of course, with muscle pain it is better to come in person. But if the state is as follows: "I don't know how to live on", "I stopped enjoying life" - all this is worked out online.

And at the end, I really like the moment when customers have questions and want to get a yes or no answer. The body never cheats.

But in any case, if the body shows that there is homework, it must be done. Otherwise, everything will come to naught.

I'm just waiting for brave people who are ready for change and can no longer live according to the old scenario.

I propose now to imagine that you and I are somewhere on the ocean shore ... And we have many postcards that we will send to every woman on the planet. What message would you write?

Believe in yourself, dream and act!

Do not choose someone else's desire - choose yours.

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