Olha Pampushko: "In my vision, a modern woman is a guardian"

Spring is always about awakening. About the moment when after a long winter the world learns to bloom again, and a woman - to hear herself. This is exactly how the heroine of the new BOMOND VIP fashion interview appears - Olha Pampushko, a woman who works with software candles, female practices and the theme of internal support. We talked about female power, about the state of the guardian in the modern world, about the inner fire, which is able to revive even after the darkest periods of life. About program candles as a tool for working with the state, about feminine energy, exhaustion, motherhood and that special magnetism that is born when a woman finally allows herself to be real.

Mrs. Olha, I think it is very symbolic that our cover and interview come out in the spring, at a time when nature itself reminds us of the time of flowering, renewal and inner awakening. Please tell me, how was the beginning of your story before your purpose - working with software candles, female energy and awakening the inner fire?

Mrs. Olena, thank you for the invitation to the interview - this is the first time I have such an experience, and that is why I feel a special awe. It is very symbolic that we say in the spring, when everything around wakes up and blooms.

Spring is a special symbol for me. Symbol of rebirth. A symbol of how life is born again in the heart after a long winter.

My journey to female practices, software candles and inner fire did not begin with inspiration... but with destruction.

I got married when I was 20. A year later, she became the mother of her son. And then my life was very clear and simple: family, care, life, responsibility. At the same time, I studied to be a cosmetologist-make-up artist, because I was always attracted to beauty, aesthetics, and femininity. I loved seeing how a woman blooms when she feels beautiful.

Later I got an economic education. Life went its own way - I was a wife, mother, housewife. An ordinary woman, like thousands of others.

But inside there was always a feeling... quiet, but very deep.

I knew I was more.

More than roles.

More than usual life.

There was a feeling that there was something special about me, but for a long time I could not understand what exactly. There was not enough contact with myself, not enough knowledge, not enough courage to look deep.

About three years before the war, I began to take my first steps towards myself. I began to study energy practices, visit women's circles, get acquainted with the topic of female energy. Then it was very careful, like an inner call that was just beginning to sound. I listened, observed, discovered new meanings. And even then I felt - this path leads me to something important.

In 2022, when the war began, my life changed instantly. I got divorced after 20 years of marriage. It was a double blow - the country is at war, and I also seem to be in an internal war with myself.

I was left alone. With an adult son. With unanswered questions.

Who am I? Where next? What to lean on?

And almost immediately another blow - I lost my job. I worked for a company that cooperated with customs, but during the war everything stopped... and I was laid off.

It was a double blow.

Personal pain and pain for the country.

Internal uncertainty and external chaos.

It seemed that the earth was just coming from under his feet.

It was a moment when life seemed to be completely zeroed out.

But that's when my true journey began.

My sister invited me to France. It was a difficult decision - a new country, new people, a different language, a different reality. But I left. She helped me work in a restaurant, and I started working as a pastry chef without knowing the language. But I knew one thing - I could. I have to.

It was a challenge.

It was fear.

It was a way out of the comfort zone.

But at the same time it was a sense of strength.

I began to discover myself from the other side.

I lived there for 8 months. And I came back different. More courageous. Deeper. More confident.

It was during this period that I began to delve even deeper into female practices. I went through many women's circles, exercises, practices. I literally absorbed information, discovered new facets of myself, felt how I gradually returned contact with my own nature.

And that's when program candles appeared in my life. I felt a very strong response. As if something inside said - it's yours.

I went to learn to create software candles. She studied symbolism, intentions, energy, work with the state. And with every step I felt - I was in my place.

I started with candles for myself. For your recovery. For your inner fire. And gradually other women began to come.

And life, meanwhile, continued to open new pages.

I met a man. He is a soldier.

And this meeting was very special for me - deep, warm, real.

I got married a second time.

And two years later, a daughter appeared in our lives.

It was a new birth.

New life.

New me.

Looking back, I realize that all these events were my way to myself. Because of loss, because of changes, because of fear and uncertainty, I came to my destiny.

Today I know for sure:

An internal support is born when it seems that it is no longer there.

To work with female energy.

To the program candles.

Before the awakening of the inner fire.

And maybe that's why spring is special for me.

Because I know that even after the coldest winter, flowering always comes.

And every woman is able to be reborn... and shine in a new way.

If you, as an artist, were to depict a portrait of a modern woman on canvas, what would this painting be like? What traits, emotions and states would be inherent in a woman today in your vision?

If I painted a portrait of a modern woman, it would not be just a painting - it would be an image of strength, tenderness and invincibility at the same time.

I see a woman-guardian. She stands confidently, barefoot on the ground - as a symbol of connection with her roots, with her land, with her strength. Her hair is blown by the wind - free, alive, natural. In her eyes there is the depth that the lived story, pain, transformations gave her, but at the same time they shine with warmth and faith.

In her hands is a trident. Not as a weapon, but as a symbol of inner strength, dignity and spiritual support. The trident in this image is not only a sign of the state, it is a symbol of the three female estates:

- a woman who feels

- the woman who creates

- a woman who protects

She is gentle, but unbreakable. She can hold the child in her arms and at the same time keep the inner space for the whole family. She may cry - but after that she rises even stronger.

Around her I see light - soft, warm, golden. It is the light of her heart, her love, her faith. At her feet, wildflowers are a symbol of naturalness and life that continues even in the most difficult times.

This is a woman who has passed the test, but has not lost her tenderness. A woman who has learned to trust herself. A woman who builds, gives birth, supports and holds the world.

In my opinion, a modern woman is a guardian.

Guardian of the family. The guardian of traditions. The guardian of the inner fire.

And the trident in her hands is a symbol of the fact that she remembers who she is.

Strong. Alive. Real.

A woman who continues to shine even in dark times.

There is a lot of talk about women's power today: they write about it, it is researched, it is searched for. Everyone puts their own meaning into this concept, but its impact on the quality of life of a woman remains undeniable. How do you personally feel about the concept of "female power"? And what steps, in your opinion, help a woman awaken this power and regain a connection with herself?

For me, female strength is not about struggle or hardness. It's about inner resistance, softness and a deep connection with yourself. This is a state when a woman feels herself, her desires, trusts her feelings and allows herself to be real.

Female power manifests itself quietly - in the look, in the voice, in the presence. This is when a woman is full, calm, but at the same time confident. She doesn't prove it - she just is. And it is this state that changes her life, relationships, inner feeling of happiness.

I came to this myself through personal transformations, through women's practices, circles, training and deep work with myself. I literally returned the connection with myself, with my body, with my intuition. It was then that I realized that the female power is already in each of us - it only needs to be awakened.

In my opinion, there are several important steps that help a woman regain this connection:

- slow down and start listening to yourself

- pay attention to your body and sensations, it is important to be able to relax the body

- allow yourself to live emotions

- to be filled through female practices and rituals

- create space for yourself and your desires

When a woman begins to move this way, inner peace, confidence and a sense of self-worth gradually appears.

For me, female power is about state. About the light inside. About the inner fire that helps a woman to be gentle, but strong, sensitive, but confident. And when this fire awakens, the woman begins to shine, and everyone around her feels it.

Your approach to software candles attracts special attention. You speak of them as something much more than just an element of the atmosphere, as an instrument capable of changing the state and even reality. Tell me, please, what are software candles in your understanding? How do they work and what sense do you put into this process?

In my opinion, a software candle is much more than just an element of the atmosphere. It is a tool for working with the state, intention and internal changes of a person. Through the candle, we seem to set the direction - what we want to attract into our lives, what to transform or what to get rid of.

The software candle is created from natural natural materials - wax, herbs, oils and other components that are selected for a specific request. An important role is played by the time of creation - the phases of the moon or days of force that enhance the work of the candle.

Also important is the manufacturing technique - modeling, casting, twisting, rolling or even pouring into the ground. Each method of creation gives the candle a certain energy and enhances its effect.

At all stages of creation, intentions, objections, and target programs are laid in the candle in a multi-tiered way. In the final, activation keys are added - this is the process of programming the candle.

A special role is played by the element of Fire. Fire is the power of transformation and movement. When the candle is lit, the fire becomes a conductor between our desire and the world, activating the nested program. It begins to gently integrate into the state of a person, his space and event plan of life.

Software candles can work with different requests:

- health

- external state and confidence

- relationships

- cash flows

- cleaning from other people's influence

- balance of energy and chakras

I always say that the software candle maximizes human actions. It helps to remove obstacles, opens up new opportunities, attracts the necessary connections and support. But it is important to take the first step - and then the candle begins to resonate with the intention and gently helps on the way to change.

For me, the software candle is about internal contact with oneself, about the intention, the power of the elements and a transformation that begins with a small fire, but is able to change the state and reality.

What role does a person's intention play in working with candles? And can we say that the result depends not only on the instrument itself, but also on the internal state of the person who interacts with it?

In working with software candles, a person's intention plays a key role. For me, the candle is a tool and a conductor, but it is the intention and the inner state that trigger profound changes.

When a woman lights a candle, she focuses on her desire, calms down, begins to listen to herself. At this moment, the element of Fire is activated - the energy of transformation, which helps to change the inner state and translate desires into reality.

It is because of the change of condition that the internal blocks are gradually removed. It happens gently and naturally:

- anxiety and tension are reduced

- clarity of thoughts appears

- fears and doubts are released

- internal resistance to change decreases

- there is a feeling of confidence and inner support

When these blocks disappear, the woman begins to act differently, make new decisions, see opportunities that she did not notice before. And that's why things start to change in life.

Therefore, the result depends not only on the instrument itself, but also on the internal state of the person. The candle strengthens the intention, helps to remove internal restrictions and creates space for new opportunities.

A program candle is not magic outside of a person, it is a soft transformation from within. And when the internal state changes, so does the reality around it.

We live in a time when many women face a state of exhaustion, internal fatigue and the feeling of life moving in a circle of the same scenarios. How to work with such a condition? How to clean up your inner space and return the resource, clarity of thought and readiness to move towards the desired life?

The state of exhaustion usually occurs when a woman lives in stress for a long time and gives more than she receives. The feeling of inner content disappears, interest in life decreases, thoughts become heavier, and decisions are made more difficult. In this state, there may really be a feeling that events are repeated, and there is no movement forward.

You should start working with this condition by restoring contact with yourself. When a woman is exhausted, she often stops noticing her own needs. The return of attention to the body, emotions and internal sensations helps to gradually restore the resource. It can be slowing down the rhythm, time without information load, simple actions that give a feeling of stability and calmness.

The second step is to clean the interior space. During the period of exhaustion, a lot of emotional tension accumulates: anxiety, irritation, a sense of responsibility for everything at once. It is important to give yourself the opportunity to live these states. It can be body work, breathing practices, meditations or cleansing rituals. Such actions help to reduce internal noise and restore clarity of thoughts.

In my work, I often use software candles as a tool for such periods. The candle creates a space where a woman can stop, formulate her state and gradually switch from tension to recovery. The flame helps to concentrate, let go of unnecessary thoughts and give yourself time for an internal reboot.

After cleaning, it is important to gradually return the resource. This is not a drastic process. It begins with small steps: the restoration of the rest regime, attention to the body, permission for pleasant actions that return the feeling of life. When at least a small filling appears, interest in new opportunities returns.

Then comes the clarity. A woman begins to understand better what exhausts her, and what, on the contrary, supports. Decisions change, there is a willingness to act and move to the desired life.

For me, it is important that the way out of a state of exhaustion is not a struggle with yourself, but a return to internal balance. When a woman gradually cleanses the inner space and is filled with a resource, there is a natural readiness for change and moving forward.

In one of your posts, my attention was drawn to a program candle called "Attractiveness". Female energy, magnetism are always topics that are of particular interest. Tell me, please, how does this tool work? And how can it affect the attraction of attention, sympathy and new opportunities in a woman's life?

The program candle "Attractivity" is a tool for working with a woman's condition, her energy and inner self-perception. I always emphasize that this is not about a "magic button", but about a soft, deep work that helps to remove the internal blocks and reveal the natural magnetism of a woman.

In this candle, we work with two important energy centers - Muladhara and Swadhistana.

Muladhara is responsible for a sense of security, stability and inner confidence. When this chakra is weakened, a woman may feel self-doubt, fear of manifesting, closed or tension. This is often imperceptible, but very much felt by others.

Swadhistana is the center of femininity, sensuality, sexuality and pleasure. When this energy is blocked, the woman may feel stiffness, fatigue, lack of interest in herself, decreased attractiveness and magnetism.

How the tool works:

Firstly, the candle is created from natural components - herbs, oils and wax, which enhance the work with female energy, relaxation and disclosure.

Secondly, during the creation, a program for the harmonization of Muladhara and Svadhistan is laid down - for confidence, attractiveness, internal magnetism and openness to new opportunities.

Thirdly, when a woman lights a candle, the element of Fire is activated - the energy of transformation. At this point, the woman focuses on her intention, calms down, and begins a soft inner work

What happens in the process:

- internal tension is reduced

- fears of manifesting are released

- there is more confidence

- femininity and softness are revealed

- increases the internal resource

When the internal state changes, the behavior of the woman also changes - the look becomes more open, the movements are softer, the voice is calmer. This is natural magnetism that attracts attention.

That is why a candle can affect:

- attracting attention

- new acquaintances

- improvement of relationships

- increasing self-esteem

- opening new opportunities

It is important to understand that the candle does not act instead of a person - it strengthens its internal state and removes the blocks that interfered with the manifestation. When a woman becomes more confident and open, she naturally begins to attract other events into her life.

That is why the program candle "Attractivity" works not only on the external effect, but on a deep internal transformation, which creates the same female magnetism.

In addition to realization in your own purpose, you are also a mother. Tell me, please, what is motherhood for you? What new facets, values has it opened up in you as a woman?

Motherhood for me is about a new level of love that cannot be explained in words. This is when the heart becomes bigger than yourself. When one look of a child fills with warmth, meaning and a deep feeling of happiness.

With the birth of my daughter, I discovered even more tenderness, softness and femininity. But at the same time, a new inner strength appeared - quiet, deep, very natural. Motherhood seems to return to its true nature, to the state of guardian, to the desire to create a space of love and warmth.

And looking at my daughter, I realized another important thing - I learn from her. Her sincerity, openness, joy to simple things resonates very much with my inner girl. It seems to help me to open up even more, to allow myself to be alive, emotional, real.

I watch her like a little sprout. So gentle, clean, real. And I understand that one careless movement can affect, so I want to create a space of love, support and acceptance for her. And here's what I realized - motherhood teaches not only to give, but also to grow with the child.

This experience opened in me even more depth, awareness and gratitude. I feel like my daughter reveals myself even more as a woman, as a mother, as a guardian.

For me, motherhood is about a balance of strength and tenderness, about love that expands, and about inner growth that happens with the child. And in this - a special, quiet, but very powerful female force.

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